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Social anxiety

A to Z Challenge: F is for FIGHT OR FLIGHT

I copied this from here:

The fight or flight response is the response of the body to a perceived threat. When faced with danger, the body releases hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol. These hormones give us a burst of energy and strength by increasing the heart rate, slowing digestion and directing blood to major muscle groups. Although the response is helpful in cases of physical threat (such as needing to run away from a bear), it is inappropriate and maladaptive when it occurs in social or performance situations, as is the case with social anxiety disorder.

You’re telling me?

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Blogging

A to Z Challenge: E is for ENJOYMENT

Nicola Morgan is someone who knows how to ask the right questions. (Gill is another.)

About my two years of blogging, she asked, “Have you enjoyed it?”

I didn’t know how to answer that at first. I know it’s been a positive experience. I know the things I worried about when I began it – criticism, ridicule, disregard – didn’t happen.

But have I enjoyed it? Yes. I’ve enjoyed connecting with people through my blog. Most of all, I’ve enjoyed meeting up with two of those people in real life. One of them, Cathy Walter, I met for the first time. The other, Erika, knew me but didn’t know me – not the real me. I do hope to meet more of my online friends in real life, because I enjoy doing that.

I think we should all be clear about what we enjoy, because:

Enjoyment is what life is for.

That and helping others to enjoy life.

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Social anxiety

A to Z Challenge: D is for DANCING

Dancing is my relaxation. Not for the body, but for the mind. When I dance, I don’t think about work or writing or how embarrassed I feel about something I said or did.

How do you relax?

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Social anxiety

A to Z Challenge: C is for CRITICISM

It’s easy to be critical. Other people often don’t behave the way you would, so you criticise them. But do you really understand? Do you know all the reasons why they acted as they did? Or the reasons why they didn’t act?

People who suffer from social anxiety worry about what others think of their behaviour. The worry itself causes them to act differently from the way you might expect, or not to act at all. So…

Don’t be quick to criticise others. You don’t always know what lies behind their behaviour.

The comment box is at the top.
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Bullying

A to Z Challenge: B is for Bullying

Just a question today.

In the dark, distant days of yore when I was at school, teachers didn’t really have the skills to deal with bullying. They hadn’t been taught this, and presumably what seems obvious to me wasn’t obvious to them. For them, as long as violence wasn’t involved, what happened between the children was none of their business.

Nowadays, things are different. Bullying is discussed as part of their syllabus. Schools have bullying policies.

So why is bullying still rampant in schools?

 

BULLYING

Just a question today.

In the dark, distant days of yore when I was at school, teachers didn’t really have the skills to deal with bullying. They hadn’t been taught this, and presumably what seems obvious to me wasn’t obvious to them. For them, as long as violence wasn’t involved, what happened between the children was none of their business.

Nowadays, things are different. Bullying is discussed as part of their syllabus. Schools have “bullying policies”.

So why is bullying still rampant in schools?

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Social anxiety

A to Z Challenge: A is for APPOGGIATURA

Heh heh, fooled you!

A is for ANXIETY.

What else could it be in a blog that’s devoted to writing and social anxiety?

I’m repeating this, for anyone who hasn’t read it before:

Social anxiety (SA) is a fear of people and especially of what those people think of the sufferer. I’ve seen SA defined as extreme shyness. While this is probably true for most sufferers, it doesn’t apply to everyone.

The origin of SA is a mixture of nature and nurture. Two people can go through the same experiences and only one will get it. Two people can start off with the same characteristics and only one will get it.

I’ll write more about social anxiety during this A to Z month. Do come back and read about that and other things.

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Books Social anxiety

Interwoven Threads

I love it when the two themes of this blog come together, as they do in this flash story by Tania Hershman. Have a read. It’s short and thought-provoking – just as it should be.

And remember I’ll be posting every day in April.

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Blogging

2 2day

Woopee!

2day is this blog’s 2nd birthday and I’m wearing a 22 for the occasion.

Sorry there’s no party 2day, but don’t forget to come back for my April showers, starting on April Fool’s Day.

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Blogging Social anxiety

I know, I know

I haven’t blogged much recently. Someone even asked if I was OK.

In case you were wondering, yes I’m OK. Sometimes I’m saddened by things I see online – things I would never have seen in the old days. But generally I’m OK and saving up my blogging energy for April when I plan to blog every day as part of the A to Z Challenge.

In the meantime, I suggest you listen to this BBC play, which goes a long way to showing what social anxiety is like. It’s a difficult topic to tackle, as I’ve found in my writing, and I think this play is quite successful.

Hurry up – it’s available for only three days.

(Thank you, Annette, for drawing my attention to the play.)

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Blogging

April Showers

So during the month of April, I’m going to shower you with posts.

Each day, I’m going to post about a topic that starts with the next letter of the alphabet. Then I’m going to check out the other blogs doing the same thing.

It’s called the A to Z Challenge and I read about it here. Thanks, Karen!